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Life Sharing
"So if there is no more money,
who is going to be better off? The person who lives in a state-run
program or an agency run program, or the person who has developed
a natural network of friends? When the drawer drops out, who is
going to be left standing? The person who has real people in their
life. I think that's one of the things that we are trying to do."
- Staff Member, Richard.
The residential
services that we develop for each person who comes to us is based
on the belief that every person wants to live a normal life. When this
is recognized, traditional services are not usually discussed. Most people
we talk with want to live with people they value and can look up to and
learn from.
Housemates are typical members of the community who enter into a life-sharing
situation with a person with a disability. Housemates not only share the
home, they make this their own residence also. They live there as friends
and companions to the person with a disability and develop a life together.
We then back up the housemate support with agency staff, looking at each
housemate's personal work and social schedule to ensure that the person
being supported has the proper support at all times.
What is a housemate?
Housemates are typically thoughtful people who, at this time in their
lives, are willing to share a home with someone in need. Several housemates
have come through connections that the person with the disability has
i.e. past staff member, family friend. Other housemates have come through
social connections i.e. school, church. And other housemates are found
through personal advertisements.
Staff screen each housemate and if an appropriate match is determined,
they are then introduced to the person being supported, and their loved
ones. It is the determination of the person supported and their loved
ones as to who will move in. Housemates are not typically staff of the
agency or on agency payroll. They are companions to the person being
supported. We typically ask for at least a one year commitment and a
three month notice of intention to move.
What does a housemate get in return?
Every situation is different based upon the needs, and desires, of
the person and their loved ones. What is standard in each situation
is that the housemate lives in the home rent free and free from the
costs of utilities. Each housemate shares in the food expenses and pays
for the extra phone line or long distance if needed. The housemate is
also able to attend school or maintain his or her full time position
elsewhere.
Who are some of the housemates?
We have people from all walks of life. We have contractors, social
service workers, students, retirees, school professionals, merchandise
workers, health professionals, the list goes on. The only common thread
is people who have a good heart and have the willingness to share a
home with someone in need.
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